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Child Molestation                                     

Recently I have heard so many horror stories about child molestation incidents occurring in our community. Here are few tips and few suggestions how to protect your innocent children from mentally sick perverts who only strike their closed ones and ruin innocent lives.

In one instant three sisters were molested and repeatedly sexually abused by the husband of the eldest sister. As he was supporting the family no sister in law could open their mouth. The one of the sister after getting married could not have children due to trauma and fear he created in her. After several therapy sessions she was ready to confront her sister to reveal the secret. But by this time the man was dead. Subsequently the girls revealed the secret to their eldest sister and finally come to terms. The girl finally conceived and delivered a healthy baby.

Moral has been to talk to some one and get help and don’t fall in the trap of depression. As soon as some thing happens please let your closed one know to stop the abuse.

In another incident brother of the father who lived with them molested his niece. The girl out of fear never revealed the secret and went in seclusion causing her severe health issues including fear to get close to any one. She distanced herself from her parents and was always under stress. Lot of times people don’t know that touching some one inappropriately is a form of molestation and can create trauma in people particularly little children who remember those incidents and feel bad about it all the times. This in turn causes severe depression and other mental diseases.

Again the moral is to talk to people close to you and get help and don’t fall in the trap of seclusion. As soon as some thing happens please let your closed one know to stop the abuse. Don’t be afraid that the molester is close to any of your relatives. Parents are advised to keep their children away from strangers as well as their relatives. Don’t leave your children with others keep them close to you and don’t let them get close to others.

 

In another case a boy was molested and sexually abused by one of his uncle during a wedding and he always resented his family for this. He eventually left his family and married an American white girl and didn’t want to have any relationship with his parents due to their negligence. He went so far to convert himself to a Baptist Christian due to his frustration from Muslim parents and relatives. The parents are suffering due to loss of their child and he is in the denial and can’t accept the fact that it was not their mistake. Again if he would have confided in his parents several others innocent victims could have been saved from molestation.

The key factor is to reveal the identity of molester as soon as possible because this can save several other innocent victims. So please confide in some one and help yourself as well other potential victims.

If you know some one who has the problem of molestation please get them treated? In today’s time sex is available at every corner of the street.  I wonder why to ruin lives of innocent children when you can get your lust fulfilled some where else.  But again this is a disease and has to be treated. If you are honest with your family structure you must identify such molesters and get them help to overcome this disease.

I wish there could be a law to shoot such people who ruin innocent lives for their little pleasure. Please post your comments on this subject.

 

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