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Amber Memon

My wife and soul mate who is blessed with angelic features

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My meeting with Amber is a mystery for me even up to today. During my job as Engineer in Pakistan International Airlines (PIA), I had a friend, a flight engineer. He lived in Karachi Administrative Society with a family as paying guest. During one of my visits to him, he introduced me to the family where I met with one of the girls of the family. The visits revealed to me that the family was interested in me and was trying to come to a ground to get me married to their daughter. One day we were taking an evening walk in the neighborhood, when she pointed to a house where, she said, a friend of hers named Amber lived there.

After a few weeks, while passing through the street, I, outside Amber’s house, met a flight engineer, late Faheem Lodi, an acquaintance then working in PIA. He was Amber’s brother in law. He invited me in the house for a cup of tea. This was my first visit and meeting with Amber’s family that consequently ended up in a relationship.

The girl who was instrumental to introduce me to Amber and her family was very disappointed by this unlikely happening, but this is an excellent example to quote that God makes the couples in heaven. It is only the matter of right time and right place that your soul mate joins you in the journey of life.

 

Amber was born in 1961. Her mother, Dr. Jamal Yusuf, gave her under the care of her parents to remarry with late Ahad Yusuf, former Mayor of Hyderabad and Provincial Minister of Health for Sind. Amber’s father passed away and her maternal grand father, Syed Akhtar Yusuf, raised her. Syed Akhtar Yusuf was a retired Army major; he worked as General Manager for His Highness Mir of Khairpur Mirs; he also served as General Manager, Pakistan Shipping Corporation. He retired in 1971, after the separation of East Pakistan, and took the last outbound flight from Dacca to unite with his family. Amber lived with her two aunts and an uncle and four grand mothers in the same house. After Dacca’s fall, Major Yusuf lost most of his savings and lived very modestly until he moved to USA where also he could not rise and passed his life in seclusion and passed away in Houston a few years ago.

Amber was brought up like a princess as she lived with four wives of Major Yusuf who married a dozen times and had children from each wife, surprisingly, all of whom living under the same roof. Amber was educated in St. Joseph convent school in Karachi and went to the same college until she was married to me. She was only 16 years old then.

Amber gave birth to two of our children Rakib and Sana and we all immigrated to the U.S.A. and have been in the United States of America since 1980.

Since Amber’s childhood everybody had been of the opinion that she had strange annotations and observations because whatever she said, it came to happen. It is because of this foretelling of hers that she was cursed by the people as someone who spoke the tongue of evil. In our language it is called Kali Zaban. However, no one knew that she did not have an evil tongue but positive gift to foresee one’s future.

During our earlier years of marriage, we were busy in raising kids and moving from Pakistan to the U.S.A. This kept us too involved so I could not realize what special gifts Amber actually possessed.

My first experience of this realization process happened in 1988 when I asked her about two of my partners in business: Rafique, a very energetic and hard working person, and Asim, a laid-back, low-profile person. I liked to work with Rafique due to his special qualities. Amber told me that Rafique would cheat on us in business whereas she predicted of Asim to be very honest to me. At the end of the day, Rafique embezzled about $ 30,000 from the company and Asim returned a loan of $10,000 to the company, which I had forgotten to bring on the record books. If he had not mentioned it at the end of the project, he could have walked away with an extra $ 10,000.

In 1989 I visited Los Angles on a business trip. My return flight was supposed to arrive in Houston at 10 p.m. and I should have been at home by 11 p.m. However, my meeting ended earlier and I took an early flight and landed in Houston at 7 p.m. I had a friend who owned a club. He always invited me to visit him. I thought it to be a good opportunity to call upon him that day. I spent my extra time from 7.30 p.m. to 10.30 p.m. with him and arrived home at my scheduled time: 11 p.m. As soon as Amber opened the door, she asked me which club I had been. Being confused, I denied the charge and lied to her that I was coming straight from the airport. To my amusement she said: “I saw your plane landing in Houston at 7 p.m.” I still denied her statement and told her that she was insane. She never argued and never repeated her comments. I just started wondering how, in the world, she found out the truth.

Amber is a very religious-minded woman. She prays five times as well as observes the Namaz-i-Tahajjid, a special prayer performed just after mid night besides the five mandatory prayers every Muslim is to perform.  Due to her insight into religion, people always approach her for spiritual guidance.

One day, we visited a Hindu priest in his temple. When we entered his office, he asked me a strange question: “I invited two of you; who is the third one you have brought with you.” I freaked out, as there was no one with us. Later on a Christian clairvoyant and psychic, S.L. Harribance President of Sean Harribance Institute for Parapsychology, Inc, told Amber that she had extraordinary gifts and she should meditate and develop her skills. I kept on pursuing her to work on her skills and she started seeing clients and since then have been helping so many people. Here are a few of her cases. The names of the clients have been withheld.

A girl came to see her. She was not able to conceive though had been trying to have a baby for the five years of her marriage. Amber told her that she had been molested by someone and had gone through a trauma. Due to this sexual contact, she actually hated to have copulation and had no way to conceive. Initially, she denied but after a few sittings, she revealed that the husband of her eldest sister, the bread provider of the family, started molesting her since she was only 13 by forcing her to have intercourse. Later on, this perverted man forced her to bring her other two sisters for the same purpose and kept on molesting all the three sisters. Due to this trauma, she could not have any relationship with her husband. Amber told her that she needed to confront her perpetuator to have peace with herself. She kept on promising Amber to counter the person responsible for her problem but could not confront him and her family. Unfortunately, the sinner passed away before she could reveal this traumatic situation to anyone. Later on, she, along with her other two sisters, confided with her eldest sister and revealed all the details of her husband’s sinful life and came to a closure. Immediately after that, she conceived and strangely delivered a baby boy on the same day as Amber was born.

A Muslim married woman came to see her and told her various problems and asked Amber for guidance. As soon as she started her sessions, Amber told her that her basic problem is infidelity with her husband. She denied the charge and insisted that she was very honest with her husband. To break her consistent lying streak, Amber told her the name of the man whom she was having sexual contact with. She was very upset and started screaming and crying. Later on she confessed that she was having an extra marital affair very discreetly but that no one knew about it. She kept on questioning Amber about the source of her information. She could not believe that Amber acquired this information from her inner sources. She was so upset by the leak that for the next few hours, she kept on trying to pinpoint the source of her leak rather than admitting that God gives gift to some people who could see what a naked eye cannot. In the Holy Quran it is very clearly stated that God knows knowledge of the unknown only and only by those dear ones whom God decides to bless with a part of His gifts. Fanatic people always confront Amber with a shout out that she is doing wrong and it is against the will of God to pursue the unknown. But they forget that she is helping the people to solve their problems. So many people think she indulges in witchcraft and try to hurt her feelings. But they do not know that she does help people and has no financial gains from this practice.

In another case, one of our spiritual friends recommended a girl for my son to get married. We visited the family briefly and later on invited them to our house. Just after a few minutes of their arrival, Amber asked the mother of the girl where her husband was. She responded to her that he lived in Karachi and had not moved here as yet. Amber immediately corrected her and said: “Yes, I know he is in Karachi but he is in a jail (Penitentiary) and was arrested for smuggling drugs.” The woman got so overwhelmed that she fell over Amber’s feet and kept on begging her not to say anything to anyone. Later on she confessed that her husband was a drug smuggler. Though very rich in his good days, was now serving time. Superficially, the girl looked so delicate that if Amber had not had this gift, I would have settled my son with this family without any hesitation.

One of my biggest regrets has been to get my son married without asking Amber while I was in Pakistan. The day Amber met the daughter in law, she told me that she had been forced to marry our son and that this relationship was not suitable for our family. Later on it was found that she was in love with someone else. Her father forced her to marry my son mainly for the money and for the reason that she could help the family to migrate to the U.S.A. My son had to divorce her and we were saved from a lot of future misery. However, it cost us at least $ 50,000 for the wedding.

          As far as politics is concerned, Amber has always predicted about candidates and foreseen the results of many elections. I always seek for her advice, as she was 100% sure about Lee Brown and Bill White’s win as Mayor City of Houston. During the third election of Mayor Brown, one day his opponent Orlando Sanchez met us in a charity gala. When I told him about Amber’s vision, he asked her about his election. Amber replied to him: “I see you winning first but losing later on.” Orlando Sanchez and even I myself could not understand what it meant. Amber could not explain to him what she just said. After some time, I came to a realization as to what she meant that he would win the first election but lose the run off election.

Similarly, Amber made predictions about President Clinton that he would be impeached and later on exonerated from the charges. I wrote down all the predictions she made for President Clinton and mailed him a letter. I never received the response but on the day when the Senate was supposed to cast a final vote, Amber and I were invited to meet with the First Lady, Hillary Clinton at Tillman Feitita’s house. This meeting took place around 5 p.m. and about an hour earlier, the U.S. Senate voted in favor of President Clinton. I happened to have the letter written to President Clinton, which I presented to the First Lady. She read the letter very patiently and immediately asked Amber “Do you think I will win senatorial race?” Amber replied: “You are already the Senator.” Mrs. Clinton told her she was not the Senator as yet and was running for the seat. Amber again uttered mysteriously: “You are the Senator.” Mrs. Clinton asked me: “Does your wife follow politics? Doesn’t she know that Mayor Gulliani is running against me and I am not the Senator?” Amber cut her off and said, “But I do not see Gulliani running against you and you will be the Senator.” Mrs. Clinton moved on to the other guests, without keeping faith in what Amber said to her though she took the copy of her predictions. Just two weeks later Gulliani was diagnosed with colon cancer and pulled out of the race. By this time Mrs. Clinton understood what Amber was seeing she could not conceive.

During John Kerry’s presidential election campaign, she constantly told me that George Bush was going to win which I kept on ignoring, as I am a hardcore democrat. However, I did not invest any resources in that election and everyone knows the result: Bush won the election. During democrat primaries, I was one of the co-hosts for a reception for Howard Dean. On the day of the reception, I was heading for Hotel Wormick. I called Amber and asked her about chances for Howard Dean. She told me that it would be a waste of time and $1000 donation and that I should rather come home. I returned home and a few weeks later; Howard Dean’s popularity declined and John Kerry surfaced as the candidate for Democratic Party. So far she thinks that Hillary Clinton would be elected as first woman President of United States of America.

Most of the Pakistani politicians who visit us talk to her and get her analysis. Most recent ones are former Prime Minister, Benazir Bhutto; former Chief Minister, Syed Ghous Ali Shah; former Chief Justice Supreme Court, Justice Sajjad Ali Shah; former Minister, Pir Mazhar Ul Haque; Senator S. M Zafar; Rasool Bux Palejo; and many others. The best part about Amber is that she never reveals her intimate talks with her clients and works very discreetly and does not charge for her services.

          One of her astonishing cases was when a couple visited us with their child. The woman was very talkative and kept on daring Amber for her supernatural capabilities. Suddenly, Amber asked the man a very strange question: “Who is this child in your lap?” The man replied: “She is my daughter.” Amber said, “I know she is her daughter,” pointing to the lady, “but not yours.” The man was very upset but the woman was very clever and kept on giggling and changed the subject. Next day the man came to my office and spoke to me about the comments my wife had made. He wanted to know more about it. I had so much faith in Amber that I was ready to pay for the paternity test (DNA Test). I made the deal with the man that if Amber was wrong I should pay for the fees and would also extend him a written apology. However, if she was not his daughter he would have to pay the DNA test fees. We mutually agreed and got the test performed which came negative and it was confirmed that she was not his daughter. Amber generally doesn’t tell negative things to hurt people until someone challenges her abilities.

          In a similar case a family approached us with a marriage proposal for my daughter. The boy was a doctor with a very respectable family background. After our first meeting, we visited their home and were introduced to the whole family. The father of the boy had remarried a younger woman. He had four children from the first marriage and two from the second. He remarried because his first wife had passed away. On the surface, the family was very educated and nice and had all the ingredients that a normal family would want in another to form relations. Amber had many reservations about the boy and kept on analyzing him. She told me that the man did not father the younger two daughters but it was the older son who was the biological father of those little girls. After a few days, the father of the boy came to see us and wanted to talk to Amber in private. Strange to note is the fact that he told Amber that he was doubtful about the paternity of the girls and had DNA tests done for them and was sure that they were his kids. I think he knew that Amber had figured out the incest and illicit relationship between his wife and his eldest son and was covering the ground with us to pursue marriage with our daughter. Subsequently, Amber very bluntly told them about the boy that he is having an affair with one of the nurses in the office besides his involvement with the stepmother. This is one of the cases that she was right on target to weigh the character of the boy. I always wondered that why sex perversion is becoming an epidemic in the Muslim society as we now often hear horror stories of molestation and incest.

Amber shows different dimension of her gift with every person she works with, as she is excellent in reading people in person as well as through photographs. In case of a Hispanic family, they brought photographs of all their family members to be analyzed. Once all pictures were spread out on Amber’s working desk, she picked up three photographs and returned to them. She refused to read about those people and told them that those people were dead and it is a sin to get into dead people’s past life. This family was hugely overwhelmed by her assertion and I always wondered how she found out that those three people were dead.

          At another occasion, we were attending a wedding when the father of the groom came to invite us to come on to the podium and take picture with the newly weds. Amber told him that she would follow him in a minute. After he left, she made a comment in front of all the friends sitting on the table that she would not like to take a picture with this witch. I got very embarrassed and asked her to be quiet but she said that this girl has choose this boy just to get the green card and was going to leave him merely in four months. It is so strange to note that just before four months they were divorced.

Lately divorce is also becoming an epidemic in the Muslim community and Amber has been counseling several girls but unfortunately some of them do not listen to her advice and suffer. Amber has told several families not to pursue marriages due to mismatch and in many instances her advice was ignored and all of those marriages have failed. In recent past she has told three girls to evaluate more about the man they were getting married but they married them and ended up in divorce. Most of the divorces are occurring due to either financial reasons or because of the infidelity of either of the partners. Since our society is getting too open and sex before marriage is becoming more acceptable by either of the partners, it has opened a new dimension of the marriage, which is the major reason of too many divorces. Parents need to counsel their children and educate them to marry to make a family and try to adjust with each other’s problems rather than divorce. If this epidemic continues, our next generation will be as messed up as other advanced nations of western countries.

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